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  • PAHO urges countries to invest in midwifery

    PAHO urges countries to invest in midwifery

    Ahead of Tuesday’s International Day of the Midwife, the Pan American Health Organization (PAHO) released a sobering assessment of midwifery systems across the Americas and Caribbean on Monday, highlighting widespread regulatory gaps that hold back life-saving maternal and reproductive care across the region.

    According to the UN health agency’s analysis, only 60% of countries in the region have a national regulatory body that clearly outlines the full scope of practice for professional midwives, and just half have implemented formal systems for regular license renewal and ongoing quality assurance. PAHO officials emphasize that these systemic gaps prevent regional health systems from unlocking the full potential of midwifery personnel, leaving millions without access to consistent, high-quality, respectful maternity care.

    At present, PAHO data collected through the National Health Workforce Accounts platform counts more than 78,000 active midwifery professionals across the Americas, translating to an average density of 3.5 midwives per 10,000 people. However, this regional average masks stark geographic inequities: subregions including Central America and many parts of the Caribbean report critically low midwife densities, ranging from just 0.1 to 13.5 per 10,000 people. PAHO notes these disparities highlight the urgent need to expand midwife training, improve equitable distribution of the workforce, and boost retention of professionals in underserved high-need areas.

    Despite these challenges, there are signs of progress across the region. Three-quarters of countries in the Americas now formally recognize midwifery as a distinct profession separate from nursing, a key milestone that paves the way for specialized education, greater professional autonomy, and clear regulatory frameworks that allow midwives to practice to the full extent of their training. Currently, 160 accredited professional midwifery training programs operate across the region, many of which have integrated modern digital learning tools, interprofessional education opportunities, and diverse clinical training settings to better prepare graduates. On average, 88% of these program graduates meet all core midwifery competency requirements, equipping them to deliver comprehensive care spanning sexual and reproductive health, pregnancy, childbirth, and postnatal care.

    PAHO is currently collaborating closely with member states to strengthen midwifery systems and the broader regional health workforce. The agency supports data-driven national workforce planning, the development and modernization of midwifery education and training curricula, and the advancement of clear regulation and formal professional recognition. It also prioritizes the integration of midwives into interprofessional health care teams, and promotes the adoption of evidence-based clinical guidelines to raise care standards, including the expansion of respectful person-centered maternity care.

    Benjamín Puertas, Unit Chief of Human Resources for Health at PAHO, emphasized that strengthening the midwifery workforce is a core strategic priority for the entire region. “Midwives are essential to expanding access to care, particularly in rural and underserved areas, and to ensuring continuity of high-quality services for women and newborns,” Puertas stated.

    PAHO officials stress that when midwifery personnel are adequately trained, fully supported, and properly integrated into national health systems, they can deliver up to 90% of all essential sexual, reproductive, maternal, newborn, and adolescent health interventions. Beyond improving pregnancy and birth safety, well-integrated midwifery also boosts broader public health outcomes including sexual health, adolescent health, disease prevention, and community-wide health promotion. Rooted in respectful, culturally congruent care that centers the unique social and community contexts of patients, midwifery also helps build long-term community trust in health services and advances broader health equity across populations. To unlock these benefits, PAHO is urging all regional governments to prioritize investment in midwifery as a foundational pillar of building resilient, equitable, people-centered national health systems.

  • Former Jamaica Observer employee to be honoured by Canadian city

    Former Jamaica Observer employee to be honoured by Canadian city

    A former staff member of Jamaica Observer, Simone Thomas, is set to receive one of Brampton, Canada’s highest civic honors: the Brampton Inspirational Citizen Award. The May 7, 2026 ceremony, hosted at a city event, will see Brampton Mayor Patrick Brown present the award to Thomas, with a roster of distinguished guests in attendance including Jamaica’s High Commissioner to Canada Marsha Coore Lobban, Jamaican Consul General to Toronto Kurt Davis, Howard Shearer (son of former Jamaican Prime Minister Hugh Shearer), and Bishop James Robinson of Faith Open Door Ministries.

    Before relocating to Canada to build her new life, Thomas built her career at Jamaica Observer, serving as executive assistant to the outlet’s editor-in-chief. Her journey to the award began in late October 2025, when Hurricane Melissa made landfall in Jamaica, leaving widespread destruction, displaced families, and urgent unmet humanitarian needs in its wake.

    For Brampton’s large Jamaican diaspora community, the disaster was not a distant tragedy: many local residents had direct family and cultural ties to the impacted regions, and were grappling with anxiety, uncertainty, and a desire to help. Thomas, recognizing both the urgent need for aid and the diaspora’s desire to contribute, stepped forward to organize a coordinated response just days after the hurricane hit.

    She first reached out to the City of Brampton to secure dedicated public space for relief efforts, laying the foundation for the One Love Hurricane Melissa Relief Hub. Over the course of three months of continuous operation, the hub served as the central coordination point for all humanitarian donations going to Jamaica, drawing support from volunteers and donors across Brampton and the entire Greater Toronto Area. Local residents dropped off essential emergency supplies, from non-perishable food to hygiene products and building materials, while hundreds of volunteers sorted, packed, and prepared shipments for transport to impacted Jamaican communities.

    Beyond its role as a logistics hub, the One Love center filled a critical emotional gap for the Brampton diaspora. It provided a safe, inclusive space for community members to come together, share updates on missing or affected loved ones, and process the grief and anxiety that came with the disaster. According to the mayor’s office, Thomas personally maintained a constant, compassionate presence at the hub: she balanced the day-to-day work of coordinating operations with offering emotional reassurance to community members reeling from the disaster’s impact.

    What began as an impromptu community donation drive grew into a sustained, city-backed movement that left a lasting mark on both Brampton and the hurricane relief efforts in Jamaica. The citation for the award highlights that Thomas’s initiative turned grassroots goodwill into a structured, impactful response. Her leadership united diverse community groups, leveraged formal partnership with the municipal government, and strengthened Brampton’s long-standing culture of cross-community solidarity.

    “Simone’s leadership transformed what could have been a short-term donation drive into a sustained, city-supported community movement. The scale of participation, the duration of operations, and the continued conversations about its impact demonstrate the measurable and lasting difference she made,” the citation reads. “Her actions exemplify proactive civic leadership, cross-community mobilization, and compassionate service. Simone Thomas did not wait for direction, she created a structured response that united residents, leveraged municipal partnership, and strengthened Brampton’s spirit of solidarity. Her contribution embodies the true essence of the Brampton Inspirational Citizen Award.”

  • Amazon to provide delivery for any business, not just its own merchants

    Amazon to provide delivery for any business, not just its own merchants

    In a transformative move that is reshaping the global logistics industry, e-commerce and technology giant Amazon announced on Monday that it is opening its decades-old, sprawling shipping and delivery infrastructure to third-party businesses of all sizes — not just merchants that operate on the company’s own e-commerce platform.

    The newly launched offering, branded as Amazon Supply Chain Services (ASCS), allows participating companies to outsource their entire end-to-end supply chain operations to Amazon, from transporting manufactured goods across international oceans to storing inventory in Amazon’s network of climate-controlled warehouses, and ultimately delivering finished products directly to consumers’ homes seven days a week. Major established consumer brands including Procter & Gamble, 3M, Lands’ End, and American Outfitters American Eagle have already finalized partnerships to integrate ASCS into their operations, signaling early industry confidence in the new service.

    Amazon framed this ambitious expansion as a parallel to the 2006 launch of Amazon Web Services (AWS), the company’s game-changing cloud computing division that revolutionized the global tech sector. AWS was originally developed as an internal tool to handle Amazon’s own massive data storage and computing needs, before the company recognized the broader market demand and turned it into one of its most profitable business units, generating more than $80 billion in annual revenue today. Leadership at Amazon believes the same playbook will work for logistics: the company has already spent billions building out its delivery network for its own retail and marketplace operations, and now it can monetize excess capacity by opening the system to outside businesses.

    Prior to this launch, Amazon’s robust logistics capabilities were largely limited to sellers participating in Fulfillment by Amazon (FBA), a program that lets third-party merchants selling on Amazon’s marketplace outsource packing, shipping, and customer service to the company. Since FBA launched in 2006, participants have shipped more than 80 billion items through the program, demonstrating the proven scale and reliability of Amazon’s operations. But until the launch of ASCS, businesses that sold through their own websites, brick-and-mortar stores, or other e-commerce platforms could not access Amazon’s logistics network.

    The entry of Amazon into the third-party logistics market sets up a new era of direct competition with established global shipping and delivery giants including UPS, FedEx, and DHL. The market reacted swiftly to the news on Wall Street: legacy logistics provider UPS saw its share price drop 10% by market close, while competitor FedEx fell 9% as investors priced in the increased competitive pressure. Amazon, by contrast, saw its own stock tick up around 1% on the announcement as investors reacted positively to the company’s new high-growth revenue stream.

  • Gradual improvements coming for utility customers, says OUR head

    Gradual improvements coming for utility customers, says OUR head

    TRELAWNY, Coral Spring — Six months after Category 5 Hurricane Melissa battered Jamaica’s critical utility infrastructure, the island’s top utilities regulator has confirmed that lingering customer service disruptions will continue through the remainder of 2025, even as gradual improvements are underway.

    Ansord Hewitt, Director General of Jamaica’s Office of Utilities Regulation (OUR), shared the update Thursday on the sidelines of the 2026 Organization of Caribbean Utility Regulators (OOCUR) Conference, hosted at the Ocean Coral Spring Resort in Trelawny. The five-day event, running from April 27 to May 1, brings together regional regulatory leaders to address shared industry challenges under the theme “Navigating Caribbean Regulatory Challenges: Opportunities, Innovations and Collaborations.”

    Since Melissa made landfall last October, the OUR has recorded a surge in consumer complaints across three regulated sectors: telecommunications, water supply, and electric power. Hewitt acknowledged that existing pre-storm quality gaps have been severely worsened by post-hurricane recovery work, with service disruptions persisting longer than many customers expected.

    “Customer service issues will almost certainly remain with us for the rest of this year, though we expect their severity to decline steadily as restoration work advances,” Hewitt explained to the Jamaica Observer. He noted that service quality has been the top complaint to the OUR since the storm, and rooted the ongoing challenges in the urgent priorities of early disaster recovery.

    In the immediate aftermath of a major hurricane, the primary mandate for utility providers is to restore critical services to as many customers as possible as quickly as possible. This rush, Hewitt explained, often means providers rely on temporary fixes and shortcuts to get power, water, and connectivity back online, rather than completing full, permanent repairs that meet pre-storm quality standards. Key core infrastructure elements for power grids and telecommunications networks require full reconstruction, a process that can take many months to complete.

    Even after nearly 100% of basic service is restored, providers face a prolonged period of post-recovery cleanup and fine-tuning to bring service quality back to pre-disaster levels. Compounding this challenge, Hewitt added, is the fact that service quality shortfalls already existed across Jamaica’s utility sectors before Melissa hit, and the chaos of restoration only amplified these existing problems.

    The OUR head also drew a parallel to recovery from 2024’s Hurricane Beryl, which struck Jamaica in July of that year. After initial service restoration was completed four to five months after Beryl, providers required an additional six months to return customer service to pre-storm levels. For Melissa, Hewitt confirmed that providers have hit major restoration milestones after six months: electric service is nearly 100% restored, while water service restoration is slightly lower.

    As regulators, Hewitt noted, the OUR has worked to strike a careful balance between pushing for faster quality improvements and understanding the constraints providers face during recovery. Immediately after a storm, the public is generally willing to accept temporary lower service standards to speed up broad restoration, but this situation cannot be allowed to continue indefinitely. The OUR is currently prioritizing pressure on utility companies to address customer service backlogs and quality gaps as quickly as possible.

  • Gov’t announces $1.4b second phase of GO Road Rehab Programme

    Gov’t announces $1.4b second phase of GO Road Rehab Programme

    KINGSTON, Jamaica — Jamaican authorities have unveiled the second stage of the landmark GO Road Rehabilitation Programme, a $1.4 billion infrastructure investment designed to upgrade critical arterial routes spanning the Caribbean island. The announcement, shared via an official release from the Ministry of Works, outlines that the initiative will center on high-traffic road corridors that underpin public transit, cross-border and domestic commerce, emergency response access, the national tourism sector, and the everyday commute of Jamaican residents. This phase forms a core component of the government’s broader national infrastructure improvement strategy, which integrates immediate repair works with long-term rehabilitation projects already underway, including the national SPARK development initiative and the Accelerated Bridge Programme.

    Robert Nesta Morgan, the minister tasked with overseeing public works, emphasized that the launch of the second phase is a direct response to widespread feedback from road users across the country. Motorists, daily commuters, public transport operators, local business associations, and community groups have repeatedly raised urgent concerns about the deteriorating condition of the island’s major road networks, prompting the government to accelerate this phase of works.

    “We have listened closely to the calls from the Jamaican public. We recognize the deep frustration that poor road conditions have caused for regular road users, and we acknowledge that thousands of Jamaicans now struggle with arduous daily commutes because of the damaged state of many key thoroughfares,” Morgan stated in the official announcement. “This second phase of the GO Road Rehab Programme is built to deliver fast action on our highest-priority roads, rolling out tangible, meaningful upgrades exactly where they are needed most urgently.”

    Morgan further explained that the island’s entire road network has faced unprecedented strain over recent months, driven by extended periods of extreme rainfall and the lasting damage left behind by Hurricane Melissa. Even as emergency repair and preliminary rehabilitation works have continued nonstop since the storm, many major corridors have continued to decline. Key issues include saturated road foundations that compromise structural integrity, clogged and damaged drainage systems that cannot handle heavy downpours,大面积 failed pavement sections, and widespread structural stress across infrastructure exposed to repeated severe weather events.

    “Many of our roads already had underlying structural vulnerabilities before the hurricane hit, and Hurricane Melissa exacerbated and exposed these weaknesses for all to see. On top of that, much of the island has received well above average rainfall over the past six months, putting even more pressure on already compromised infrastructure,” Morgan added. “That is why the government is taking a layered approach, combining emergency spot repairs, targeted resurfacing, full drainage system upgrades, and large-scale full rehabilitation works across priority corridors.”

    Under the scope of Phase Two, works will include precision patching of damaged pavement sections, full resurfacing of high-wear routes, targeted upgrades to drainage systems where flooding and water damage are recurring issues, and additional improvement works tailored to the findings of technical assessments carried out by the National Works Agency (NWA). Priority ranking for works will be based on three core metrics: total daily traffic volume, the severity of surface deterioration, and the route’s strategic importance to local communities and national economic activity.

    The National Works Agency will take full charge of project implementation for the second phase, and has committed to publishing regular public updates as work schedules are confirmed and construction gets underway across different sites.

  • Cape Verde bans passengers from cruise with suspected virus deaths

    Cape Verde bans passengers from cruise with suspected virus deaths

    Off the coast of the West African archipelago nation of Cape Verde, a cruise ship anchored near the capital Praia remains in limbo after local authorities rejected requests for passengers to disembark, following a suspected hantavirus outbreak that has claimed three lives. The decision, framed as a critical protective measure for local communities, comes even as global health officials have stressed that overall public risk from the incident remains low.

    The MV Hondius, operated by Netherlands-based adventure cruise company Oceanwide Expeditions, was en route from Ushuaia, Argentina when the outbreak unfolded. In its first official public statement on the incident, the operator confirmed the three fatalities: two people died while aboard the vessel, and a third passed away shortly after disembarking earlier in the journey. Currently, one passenger with a confirmed hantavirus infection is receiving intensive care in Johannesburg, South Africa, while two additional people on the ship remain in need of urgent medical attention. No official confirmation of hantavirus has yet been released for these two symptomatic individuals.

    Cape Verdean public health authorities made the ban on disembarkation clear in comments Sunday to local public broadcaster RTC. Maria da Luz Lima, president of the country’s National Institute of Public Health, confirmed that the vessel has not been granted permission to dock at Praia’s port, and no passengers or crew will be allowed to leave the ship while it is anchored off the coast. “There would be no contact between the passengers and the country,” Lima stated, emphasizing that the policy is designed solely to protect Cape Verde’s resident population. Local medics have been allowed to board the vessel to assess the condition of the two sick crew members, but no approval has been granted to move these individuals to onshore medical facilities.

    Dutch authorities have stepped forward to lead an international coordination effort to repatriate the two symptomatic people on board to the Netherlands for treatment. A spokesperson for the Dutch foreign ministry confirmed to AFP that officials are actively exploring all options for a medical evacuation, and the ministry will take charge of coordination if the operation moves forward. Oceanwide Expeditions noted that the evacuation is contingent on multiple variables, chief among them receiving formal authorization from Cape Verdean local officials.

    The World Health Organization has moved quickly to support the response effort, even as it works to calm public anxiety. Hans Kluge, WHO Regional Director for Europe, reiterated in an official statement that the risk to the general global public from this event remains low, and there is no need for widespread panic or new travel restrictions. Kluge explained that hantavirus infections are rare in humans, and most cases are tied to exposure to virus-carrying rodents. While rare, the agency notes that the virus can occasionally spread between people, and may cause severe respiratory illness that requires close, ongoing medical monitoring.

    As of Sunday, the WHO confirmed that one case of hantavirus has been definitively confirmed, with five additional suspected cases linked to the ship. The organization says it is working urgently with all affected countries to provide support for medical care, evacuation coordination, epidemiological investigation, and public health risk assessment. A key outstanding question remains at the center of the ongoing investigation: while one passenger has tested positive for hantavirus, authorities have not yet formally confirmed that the virus was the cause of the three deaths. Oceanwide Expeditions says the exact origin of the fatalities and any potential link to hantavirus remain under active investigation.

  • WATCH: Swaby urges united action to protect youth, prioritise children’s mental health

    WATCH: Swaby urges united action to protect youth, prioritise children’s mental health

    On a quiet, reflective Sunday in downtown Kingston, Jamaica, community members, grieving families, and civic leaders gathered at the Secret Garden for a special candlelight vigil, a core event marking the island’s annual Child’s Month. This year’s national observance carries a urgent, targeted theme: “Prioritising Our Children’s Mental Health: Strong Minds, Safer Future”, turning public attention to a crisis that has long flown under the radar. Opening the ceremony, Kingston Mayor Andrew Swaby issued a stirring call for cross-societal unity to confront the unseen suffering plaguing thousands of Jamaican young people.

    Swaby drew sharp attention to the “silent battles” that many of the nation’s children wage every day away from public view: unaddressed trauma, persistent fear, systemic neglect, and crippling emotional pain. Too often, he emphasized, these hidden struggles do not remain hidden forever – they escalate and end in irreversible, devastating loss of young life, a cost that no community can afford to bear. For Swaby, the vigil was far more than a memorial to the children whose lives were cut short by tragic circumstances. He framed it as a “sacred pause” – a moment for the entire nation to stop, reflect, and remember that every child who died carried unique potential, unfulfilled promise, and inherent purpose that was lost to systemic inaction.

    Attendees took part in solemn, intentional rituals to honor the fallen: lighting candles that cut through the dim garden air, laying wreaths to mark grief and remembrance, and observing a minute of complete silence to hold space for the pain of grieving families. When the moment ended, Swaby challenged every segment of Jamaican society to confront an uncomfotable question: Is the nation truly doing enough to lift up and support its young people?

    Protecting children, he stressed, is not the responsibility of a single government agency or one group – it is a shared duty that binds together families, educators, community leaders, and every Jamaican citizen. The gathering’s glowing candles, he said, were not just symbols of remembrance; they represented a collective promise to the nation’s young: that the country will commit to protecting children, nurturing their mental well-being, and building a more secure future for coming generations.

    Beyond a call for individual action, Swaby pushed for systemic change, demanding stronger, more robust institutional frameworks that address the root causes of harm to children. He named pervasive community violence and crippling social pressures as two of the most damaging underlying forces, and called for a collective reimagination of Jamaican communities – spaces where every child can grow feeling safe, seen, and valued. Extending sincere condolences to all families in attendance who had lost a child, Swaby urged continued targeted support for those affected by tragedy and a renewed commitment to cross-group collaboration that puts children’s safety and well-being at the center of national priorities. The ceremony closed with a quiet, peaceful procession through the Secret Garden, as attendees carried their candles through the green space, carrying the mayor’s call back to their homes and communities.

  • Digicel 25th | A Jamaican Journey Powered By YOU

    Digicel 25th | A Jamaican Journey Powered By YOU

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  • Tufton urges citizens to return to local health centres

    Tufton urges citizens to return to local health centres

    Nearly seven months after Hurricane Melissa slammed into western Jamaica, destroying critical community healthcare infrastructure, the island nation is on the cusp of fully restoring primary care access for rural residents, with top health officials calling on locals to re-engage with local clinics to manage chronic conditions and reduce strain on overloaded hospitals.

    Jamaica’s Minister of Health and Wellness Dr Christopher Tufton made the announcement during an April 30 press briefing, held immediately after he completed an inspection tour of the Black River Hospital and Health Centre in the parish of St Elizabeth, one of the regions hardest hit by last October’s storm. Of the 23 public health centres operating across St Elizabeth before the hurricane, 10 suffered severe structural damage that forced temporary closures and pushed thousands of patients to seek care at already crowded regional hospitals.

    As of late April, all but one of the damaged clinics have completed repairs and resumed full operations, Tufton confirmed. The lone outlier, the Black River Health Centre, is currently undergoing final reconstruction work, with care currently being delivered out of a temporary container-based facility set up on the clinic’s original compound. Tufton projected that the full restoration will be finished by late May or early June, bringing all 23 St Elizabeth health centres back online to serve local communities.

    The nationwide push to reopen storm-damaged primary care facilities is a core component of Jamaica’s broader public health strategy, which aims to center primary and preventive care rather than rely on overstretched hospital services. By encouraging patients to return to community clinics for routine chronic disease management, preventive health screenings, and prescription refills, officials hope to decongest acute care hospitals, extend essential services to underserved rural populations, and reduce the rate of preventable hospitalizations that strain both the public health system and household finances.

    Currently, only around 80% of former primary care patients have resumed regular visits to their local clinics, a gap Tufton attributes to lingering disruption from the hurricane. Recognizing the trauma that storm-affected communities have endured, the ministry has launched a targeted community outreach effort, with community health aides and primary care teams going door-to-door to encourage residents of all ages to return to routine care.

    “ We understand the trauma that they have been through, but we don’t want them to neglect their chronic illnesses, their screening opportunities, and their access to drugs, ” Tufton said, noting that consistent primary care is the foundation of long-term public health, national economic resilience, and protection for Jamaica’s most vulnerable populations.

    The initiative also incorporates a data-driven framework to track progress: officials will monitor key metrics including patient re-engagement rates, completion of preventive screenings, and adherence to ongoing treatment plans to refine outreach efforts and address gaps in access.

    Once full restoration is complete, the Black River Hospital – which was also heavily damaged by the storm – will operate close to 150 beds, a capacity that reflects the growing demand for expanded healthcare services across western Jamaica.

  • Tied to my ex

    Tied to my ex

    A woman facing an agonizing romantic dilemma recently reached out to relationship counselor Rev. Christopher Brodber for guidance, opening up about the complicated secret she has carried throughout her two-year engagement.

    The woman explained that she began seeing her current fiancé as a rebound relationship after ending things with her high school sweetheart, who she left after he was unfaithful to her. Though her ex never wanted a long-term commitment after their breakup, she maintained an intimate connection with him, in large part because of the deep emotional bond she formed with his son, whom she helped raise as her own during her original relationship with her ex. Now that her fiancé has proposed and made his long-term intentions clear, she finds herself torn between the steady, serious partnership he offers and the lingering attachment she still holds to her ex.

    Unsure of how to proceed, she asked Brodber whether she should confess her ongoing affair to her fiancé immediately, or wait and end things with her ex before revealing her deception.

    In his response, published on Jamaica Observer’s “Get on The Counsellor’s Couch” advice column, Brodber emphasized that any relationship built on deception stands on an unstable, shaky foundation. Drawing a parallel to the biblical teaching of building one’s life on solid rock rather than shifting sand, he noted that hidden dishonesty will eventually erode any trust partners build, and can wash away all the time, energy and love a person has invested in a relationship.

    Brodber’s core recommendation was that the woman must confess the full truth to her fiancé, no matter how frightening that outcome may be. He acknowledged that her honesty will almost certainly cause deep pain and anger, and may even lead her fiancé to end the engagement. But he stressed that the woman owes her fiancé, who has loved her enough to propose marriage, the respect of full transparency. Even if the relationship ends, he said, doing the right thing will leave her with a clearer conscience.

    Beyond calling for full disclosure, Brodber also encouraged the woman to do deep self-reflection to unpack why she has risked a stable, committed relationship for a casual, unstable connection with an ex who betrayed her once and has no interest in a future together. He suggested that the root of her confusion likely comes from unresolved emotional baggage from past relationships or childhood experiences, such as low self-esteem, unaddressed fears, or unhealthy emotional dependency.

    To work through this uncertainty, Brodber suggested that stepping away from both relationships entirely to spend time alone would help her gain clarity, heal, and rebuild her life on a foundation of honesty. He pushed back on the common idea that she can “have the best of both worlds,” reminding her that actions always have consequences: just as the Bible teaches, you reap what you sow, and sowing deception will eventually produce a harvest of heartbreak.

    Broken down into clear, actionable steps, his final guidance centered on radical integrity and intentional choice. First, he told her to make a clear decision about her future: if she cannot give up the casual relationship with her ex, she must end things with her fiancé immediately. Maturity, he noted, requires making hard choices and accepting the consequences of your actions. Second, when she speaks to her fiancé, she should create a safe, intentional space to confess, prepare for any reaction, offer a full apology, and ask for forgiveness regardless of whether he chooses to stay in the relationship. He also recommended that she have support on hand in case the conversation becomes volatile.

    Closing his advice, Brodber framed marriage as a sacred, weighty institution that requires full commitment and honesty to thrive. “Every treasure can bring trouble if it isn’t cared for properly,” he wrote, ending with a prayer that the woman finds the wisdom and courage to choose the honest path she needs to take.

    Readers can submit their own relationship questions to Rev. Brodber’s “Get on The Counsellor’s Couch” column via e-mail at allwoman@jamaicaobserver.com.