LETTER: Women, Take Care of Yourselves — The Housework Can Wait

In Antigua and Barbuda, a growing number of women are silently grappling with burnout, as they juggle the demands of work, family, and community life. Young mothers, wives, and daughters are pushing themselves to their limits, often at the expense of their physical and emotional well-being. The societal expectation for women to ‘hold everything together’ is taking a severe toll, with rising cases of hypertension, heart disease, and chronic fatigue among women in their 20s and 30s. Stress has become a silent killer, eroding the health of countless women across the nation.

The letter, penned by a concerned sister, serves as a poignant reminder that self-care is not a luxury but a necessity. Women are encouraged to rest, say no, and prioritize their health over household chores. The message is clear: ‘You cannot pour from an empty cup.’ By taking time to heal and recharge, women not only safeguard their own well-being but also set a powerful example for the next generation.

The letter also calls on men and families to step up and share the responsibilities. A healthy woman, the writer emphasizes, is the cornerstone of a healthy home and, by extension, a stronger nation. Women of Antigua and Barbuda are urged to put themselves on their own priority list, reminding them that the housework will still be there tomorrow, but their health and presence are irreplaceable.

In a society that often glorifies the ‘superwoman’ archetype, this heartfelt plea serves as a wake-up call to recognize the importance of self-care and collective responsibility. It’s time to break the cycle of burnout and build a future where women can thrive, not just survive.