As the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women concludes, the grim reality of ongoing gender-based violence persists unabated. Hazel Thompson-Ahye, a seasoned legal professional, reflects on the tragic pattern of domestic fatalities that continue to plague society, questioning how many more women must perish before substantive change occurs.
The recent murder of Councillor Romona Teeneal Victor represents the latest chapter in a devastating narrative that Thompson-Ahye first witnessed four decades ago with the death of client June Edwards. Despite court-issued injunctions and legal interventions, the system failed to prevent Edwards’ husband from stabbing her before ending his own life. The haunting memory of Edwards’ young children at their mother’s funeral remains etched in Thompson-Ahye’s consciousness, symbolizing the profound collateral damage of domestic violence.
Through her extensive career, Thompson-Ahye has adopted a survival-first approach, advising clients to immediately flee dangerous situations regardless of material sacrifices. However, she acknowledges the complex barriers that prevent many from leaving, including homelessness and paralyzing fear. Her practice has evolved to include counseling male clients, encouraging emotional maturity and acceptance when relationships end. One transformative success story involved a formerly troublesome client who reformed his behavior and maintained positive communication years later.
The legal profession bears significant responsibility in preventing violence, Thompson-Ahye emphasizes. She recalls a catastrophic instance where a lawyer’s negligence resulted in a client fracturing his wife’s skull with a hammer. This incident underscores the critical need for legal professionals to exercise diligent protection measures.
Educational reform represents another crucial frontier. Thompson-Ahye advocates for comprehensive training from preschool onward to help both girls and boys recognize abusive patterns and understand gender equality. The University of the West Indies Laboratory Pre-School’s model of teaching equality through difference provides a replicable framework for nationwide implementation.
While legislative improvements have been made to the Domestic Violence Act, Thompson-Ahye criticizes law enforcement’s continued failure to treat domestic violence with the same seriousness as other crimes. She argues that police must investigate regardless of victim cooperation, breaking the cycle of impunity.
In tribute to victims, Thompson-Ahye shares her calypso composition “Ah Reconstructing Masculinity,” originally written to honor Professor Eudine Barriteau of UWI Cave Hill. The poem employs powerful symbolism—hard hats, steel-tipped boots, and toolkits—to represent the rebuilding of masculinity with gender sensitivity, emotional intelligence, and respect. Updated verses for 2025 celebrate Trinidad and Tobago’s female leadership while advocating for women’s expanded roles in governance, particularly in financial management where Thompson-Ahye believes women demonstrate superior competency.