OPINION: Independence Isn’t What You Think

Women have long fought for and achieved equal rights, securing their place in every sphere of society. They have celebrated their hard-won freedoms and continue to demand a voice in every forum. However, a seldom-discussed truth remains: the systems enabling this modern independence were constructed by men. From protective laws to accessible careers and everyday conveniences, these were built, maintained, and safeguarded by men for women. Yet, in contemporary society, respect for men has become optional, and gratitude has often been replaced by entitlement. Many speak as though societal structures emerged magically, ignoring the foundational efforts of men. Imagine a world where women vanished today. While the emotional, cultural, and moral loss would be profound, societal machinery would persist. Roads would remain paved, flights would continue, and systems would still function. Civilization would endure, though reproduction would cease. This underscores a vital lesson: true independence is not about longevity, rights, or appearances but understanding interdependence. It’s about respect, gratitude, and recognizing that men and women complete each other rather than compete. Men are not optional extras; they are the builders, protectors, and sustainers of society. When crises arise, it is often men who hold the scaffolding together. As we celebrate national independence, let’s also reflect on personal independence — the kind that acknowledges contributions rather than isolates. The balance between genders is essential. Until this is understood, claims of independence remain hollow, like flags waving in borrowed wind. Men are not competition; they are completion.