A senior Anglican bishop has issued a stern condemnation of extramarital relationships known as ‘sweethearting,’ labeling the practice as morally corrupt and indicative of The Bahamas’ departure from its Christian foundations. The remarks from Diocesan Bishop Dr. Anthony Farrington come in response to a comprehensive University of The Bahamas study that has quantified the prevalence of these arrangements for the first time.
The research paper, titled ‘A Description of Sweethearting in The Bahamas,’ analyzed responses from 6,714 adults and revealed that many married individuals maintain external sexual partnerships to fulfill emotional or intimacy needs while preserving their marriages. Among the key findings: one in five respondents reported multiple sexual partners within the previous six months, with 77% identifying at least one partner as a ‘sweetheart.’ The study also noted that 54% of married women described their sweetheart as sexually superior to their spouse, compared to 39.5% of married men.
Dr. Farrington expressed profound concern over the findings, stating that while he was aware of the practice, its documentation presented troubling evidence of societal decline. ‘Our society has drifted tremendously from our forefathers’ foundation,’ he remarked. ‘I condemn it unequivocally as a religious leader who believes in the institution of family as one husband, one wife, and their children.’
The bishop voiced additional concern about public reaction to the study, particularly comments normalizing sweethearting arrangements. This response, he argued, demonstrates that despite The Bahamas’ identity as a Christian nation, significant work remains to align practices with religious principles. ‘There is a difference between being a Christian and a believer,’ Farrington emphasized. ‘Many believe in God but are not walking in the footsteps of Christianity.’
In response to the study, religious institutions are being urged to intensify their focus on marital strengthening through seminars, family events, and potentially new programs specifically designed to address sweethearting. Bishop Farrington acknowledged that no marriage is perfect but stressed the importance of proactive effort, open communication, and professional counseling to maintain marital integrity.
Meanwhile, Bahamas Christian Council president Bishop Delton Fernander has raised methodological questions about the research, expressing uncertainty about the survey’s sample size and representation.